Wednesday, July 30, 2014

Customs & Courtesies



      Part of what makes a culture a culture is the courtesies that surround the human interactions within that culture. Without those interactions are certain implied gestures of respect. The gestures help everyone know where they stand with each other, that they are accepted or rejected, that they can be safe.
      In Japanese culture when two people greet each other, there is the traditional bow. The person of lower status in the culture bows further than someone in a higher position. It is very important to observe this simple custom in Japan. There are rules governing the degree and length of the bow, or combination of bows. Even an apology is accompanied by a bow, the sign of submission.
      Here in the West we usually greet someone by shaking hands, or perhaps with a hug of one form or another. The origin of the handshake is thought to be an ancient way to show that you weren’t carrying a weapon, or that you were on friendly terms with the other person.
      Customs go beyond what we do when we greet. Everything from a good night kiss after a date, to who picks up the bill when you go out for dinner with a work colleague, are all part of our package of customs, often unwritten and learned by absorption over time.
      Jesus had a custom that was part of His life and ministry. When people would gather around Him, He would teach them. He was continually trying to convey the message of God’s Good News to people. He did it through His teaching lessons and through the miracles He performed. And the teaching and the miracles were often extensions of each other, one reinforcing the other.
      We read that Jesus was again on the move, extending His ministry by traveling to another location in order for different people to hear and see Him. Remember, this is a time when there was no cable TV, no newspapers, only word of mouth. And news about Jesus had spread so much that even when He arrived at a new place, people began to gather. Even when He didn’t want a crowd, a crowd would form. People couldn’t get enough of Him.
      But not all crowds are the same. As opposition was building against Jesus from the religious leaders of His day, there were frequent attempts to catch Jesus saying something that could be used against Him in a court of law. They needed charges that would stand up in court. They needed solid evidence of a capital crime, something that could bring about the death penalty. And they wouldn’t give up until they had some.
      But even with the opposition present, Jesus still carried out His custom. He taught. He had nothing to hide. He taught out in the open and held nothing back. Even when He shared with His disciples in private, it was always content that He had already shared publicly. He would go into a more detailed explanation, but He didn’t reveal a boatload of new things.
      What things do you do when you get together with people?