Mark 2:19-20
The
expression “rain on my parade” is one that brings a visual picture to someone
who is killing a happy mood or occasion. Sometimes we tell someone to “take a
chill pill” when they seem to hyper about something. We often want to change
the mood of others to match our own mood. We are not willing to rejoice with
those who rejoice and weep with those who weep.
But
there are emotions that are appropriate for certain situations, and we should
match our emotions for those occasions. If we are grieving, we put our grieving
on hold during the wedding reception. Otherwise we become the center of
attention. And we aren’t supposed to be the center. The bride and groom are
supposed to be the center.
In
the Jewish religious calendar, the Day of Atonement only required day for
fasting in Jewish year. Other fast days were allowed, but only one was
required. But the Pharisees and other Jewish groups added required fast days to
their own religious requirements. It was almost as if there was a competition
to see who could be the most religious through meeting certain requirements
like fasting.
In
Jesus’ day wedding feasts lasted seven days, and signs of mourning, including
fasting, were not allowed at the feast. It was a time of celebration; nothing
was allowed to interrupt that joy. It was a time to solidify family
relationships, creating ties that would carry people through difficult times
ahead. New members were welcomed into the family. Stories were exchanged. Food
was shared. Laughter and celebration was the theme of the week.
Jesus’
presence was to be just as joyous as a wedding feast. Fasting just doesn’t fit
with joyous celebration. Jesus was only going to be with the disciples for a
limited period of time and that time was one of celebration, not of mourning.
Jesus
gives us the first hint of His upcoming death and resurrection, and the changes
that will take place after that. Fasting does become part of the New Testament
experience, but it is not one that is required, as the fasting for the Day of
Atonement was. It is more in line with Isaiah 61. It is an outward
identification with the downtrodden.
Fast
if you feel called to, but don’t demand that others follow your lead.