Showing posts with label Tension. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Tension. Show all posts

Friday, October 31, 2014

The Last Meal


Mark 14:12-26
      Some moments in history get captured in the imagination. I remember the moment when the Challenger , exploded over the skies of Florida. I was watching the launch on TV, sitting in a small lunch place at the beach in New Jersey. I was working construction during the off-season. There were only two places to eat, this place and a small Chinese place. We alternated between the two. When the explosion happened, everyone in the place began to speculate about the fate of the astronauts. As I remember, I can see myself sitting there, head pointing upward at the screen, munching on my Reuben sandwich. The sandwich was really good, by the way.
      Some moments get so captured in our imaginations that they end up in pictures. Leonardo da Vinci captured this moment in his imagination and painted one of the most famous painting in history, The Last Supper. The subtleties of expression and position tell his understanding of the event. Although many things in the painting don’t match with first century Jerusalem, it still has captured the imagination since being painted over 500 years ago.
      The central message of our text is twofold: prediction and institution. Jesus predicts his betrayal and He institutes Communion for the Church. It is interesting that these two are placed side by side. Part of what we remember when we take communion is the ability of humans to do the worst things to each other. Judas was just like us. We are just like him.
      And yet, Jesus died for us, and for Judas.
      The reason Jesus is in Jerusalem with thousands of other Jews was the celebration of the Passover Feast, a required ceremony for every devout Jew. It was the focal point of the religious year. Every other sacrifice and ritual that was performed during their year pointed to Passover and the death of the lamb. That lamb’s death was the symbol of the consequences of sin. Sin required someone’s death. The lamb died in the place of firstborn. If the lamb didn’t die, the firstborn did.
      A place had been chosen to eat this meal together, and preparations had to be made. I don’t know about you, but family gatherings can sometimes be difficult. It seems as though so many little things can go wrong, so many things that could tip the balance. Some families can’t get together without some huge drama. Guns get pulled, fists get thrown, drunken stumbles, shouts of rage and insult. I am so thankful for the family I have!
      Looking back over the timeline of the texts’ few days, we can see how foolish the disciple’s denials became. They all betrayed Him! Although they all asked if it was them, they all became Judas. Judas might have taken the thirty pieces of silver, but every one of them walked away from Jesus. Every one of them turned their back.
      And that is one of the central truths of the Good News. We all deserve to wear the label “Traitor”. And yet Jesus offers us forgiveness, friendship, fellowship, restoration. We gave Him death. He gives us life. He bore the penalty for our sin. He gives us the benefits of His righteousness. He got what He didn’t deserve so what we would get what we don’t deserve. He took what we deserved and we got what He deserves. What a great exchange.

Sunday, September 22, 2013

Pressure Relief Valve


Proverbs 15:18
      Some people have a way of stirring up trouble. When they enter a room, or when they come into a new situation, they seem to find the center of the record and start it spinning. They don’t seem to be happy, and of course they never really are happy, unless they can stir things up.
      Many of us have family members who are like that. They stir up conflict and strife. Perhaps they always swing the conversation toward controversial topics. Perhaps alcohol, what I call “liquid stupid,” gets flowing and they don’t know how to shut up.
      By contrast there are some folks who just seem to bring calm to any situation. They don’t get “spun up” when others seem to be spinning out of control. They have a way of bring a non-anxious presence into the room. I like it when these folks are around. They seem to have a perspective about the current struggles that make them seem small and manageable. They exude quiet confidence.
      Because they have perspective, the current struggle is relatively small. They are able to enter a conflict and help all sides gain some perspective. They don’t take the aggression and anger being directed at them personally. They act as a pressure relief value for the parties. Instead of reacting to the anger, they let it pass right by them and out of the room. And when that happens, the temperature in the room drops.
      The one quality mentioned for these kinds of people is patience. If we are willing to wait, to hear people out, to not react, then we are able to diffuse the tension. But patience must be practiced. It takes effort to not react, even on the inside. Some things just push our buttons, and it takes effort to find the buttons in our life and figure out how to unwire them. Many people don’t take time to do this. They don’t take time to pay attention to their own reactions and then figure out why they reacted they way they did.